Always Look to the Bright Side

I don't always give advice when someone in pain, I'm just really a listener. But this time I will give advice for everyone.

We must understand everyone, even our thinking are not the same, even how hard the situation, try to understand all, not only focus on the situation, but what will be the result if I do this or that, ask yourself, do I think it will be better for me? Do I think it will be better for everyone if I made this decision? I know it's really hard to decide, when you are in pain, but if you think this pain will be worth it, will be better for you and for everyone, don't be afraid to feel the pain, it's only temporary.

Don't let your emotions control you whether you're happy, sad, depressed, upset, hopeless, broken heart or in pain, if you want to decide don't decide based on what you feel, decide when you think of the positive outcome.

Saying I'm fine, but the reality is you feel worthless, upset, hopeless, sad, depress, heart broken, insecure, useless, alone, weak, nervous, anxious, scared, empty, tired. Yes, it's fine and it doesn't mean that when you feel those it's always negative, those things are making us stronger, it is blessing in disguise.

Sometimes it's okay to take a rest, stop, get angry and cry when you feel tired, but remember, don't give up because this pain will be worth it and it's just temporary.

No matter how hard the situation, how hard to understand the situation, try to be positive, don't be afraid to take risk when you think it will be better for everyone.

Whatever you decide eventually the pain will end, there's no permanent in this world. Whatever happens let it be, trust God, he won't give you mission that he knows that you can't handle.

Always look to the bright side.

Beauty is Just the Way You Are

I asked some of my friends why they are wearing makeup and here are their answers:

"To gain confidence, to look attractive, to look pleasant in the eyes of other people."

"It makes me feel fresh and look attractive."

"I wear it because I'm too pale if I don't have it."

"I wear makeup sometimes because I want to change the others perspective about me."

"I wear makeup to look not so pale and to enhance my beautiful face."

Throughout the history about the makeup, the beauty is very different from the modern beauty. Who would believe during Ancient Greece "Unibrow" considered as beauty, this time when the eyebrows are thick, not unibrow it must be shaved to look beautiful. Today when it comes to large forehead we call it airport, but during Elizabethan Era large forehead considered beautiful.

I don't know why society thinks that eyeglasses, thick eyebrows and braces will make you feel ugly. (Is this in real life or it's just only in some stories that I read?)  I find people cute when they are wearing eyeglasses. Thick eyebrows? I'm having a girl crush when she has thick eyebrows like Lily Collins she is my number one girl crush. (I have thick eyebrows and I wish it were thicker)  Braces? It is attractive for me.

Eventually, today's beauty may not be considered in the future, it's just a cycle the trends before can become trends today. You don't need to follow the trends to look beautiful or feel beautiful, but if that's you there's nothing wrong with that. Remember this, no matter what beauty are considered, you will always be beautiful just the way you are.

I really love this song by Backstreet Boys calls "What Makes You Different (Makes You Beautiful)