I don't always give advice when someone in pain, I'm just really a listener. But this time I will give advice for everyone.
We must understand everyone, even our thinking are not the same, even how hard the situation, try to understand all, not only focus on the situation, but what will be the result if I do this or that, ask yourself, do I think it will be better for me? Do I think it will be better for everyone if I made this decision? I know it's really hard to decide, when you are in pain, but if you think this pain will be worth it, will be better for you and for everyone, don't be afraid to feel the pain, it's only temporary.
Don't let your emotions control you whether you're happy, sad, depressed, upset, hopeless, broken heart or in pain, if you want to decide don't decide based on what you feel, decide when you think of the positive outcome.
Saying I'm fine, but the reality is you feel worthless, upset, hopeless, sad, depress, heart broken, insecure, useless, alone, weak, nervous, anxious, scared, empty, tired. Yes, it's fine and it doesn't mean that when you feel those it's always negative, those things are making us stronger, it is blessing in disguise.
Sometimes it's okay to take a rest, stop, get angry and cry when you feel tired, but remember, don't give up because this pain will be worth it and it's just temporary.
No matter how hard the situation, how hard to understand the situation, try to be positive, don't be afraid to take risk when you think it will be better for everyone.
Whatever you decide eventually the pain will end, there's no permanent in this world. Whatever happens let it be, trust God, he won't give you mission that he knows that you can't handle.
Always look to the bright side.
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